“You’re not worth anything unless you show me your tits.” It was 5pm on a Tuesday afternoon when this disgusting comment was snarkily spoken to me by a man we will call DumbFuck or DF for short. I was getting near the end of my work day as an exotic dancer, and had been talking to DF (and his surprisingly rather lovely friend) for about fifteen minutes at DF’s request.
I had approached them - as I do all patrons of the club - to welcome them and share a few words. I look at this part of my profession as though I am the hostess of a party. With this mentality, I view all people who enter the facility as my guests - whether they attend to see me specifically or not. My perspective is that we all work together to create the fun, inviting, and dynamic environment, most of my clients seem to enjoy during breaks in their day. Community is everything both as a simple human gesture, and as a business tactic. As the song goes, you want to go where everybody knows your name.
Tink, world traveler, positivity muse, and adult entertainer, has also freelance written for a number of companies as their ghostwriter. Now talking directly to YOU on this platform, she is also writing two books at her community's request.