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Booby trapped

7/25/2023

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​My boobs looked amazing.

I was standing in front of the mirror, completely naked, gazing unflinchingly at my body. It’s a practice I got in the habit of doing on occasion after I led the “I love you” project with a group of yogis back in Costa Rica in 2017. 

The idea is to look at yourself in the mirror and say “I love you” with no caveats, admiring all of you, exactly as you are in that moment. Meant as a body empowerment exercise, it’s a lot harder than it sounds.

Back to the matter at hand, however. My cleavage was poppin. I couldn’t stop staring - the girls looked plump, full, and bouncy. Not that they’ve ever looked awful, but something was …different.

I tilted my head to the side. Did my breasts seem…happy?

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Truth be told

7/18/2023

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August 18, 2020 - my birthday, the day after a painful surgery, and with the world in a mandated quarantine. It's crazy to think of the things I didn't know, that were still to happen.And yet, all of the journey shapes the truths I've written about here.
​My birthday - August 18th - is one month from today. I love birthdays. I think there is something remarkable about the day we are each born. At a certain moment on that very day, we as unique individuals, separated from the genetic material that housed us while we grew, and entered into a relationship with the world we now live in.

That’s pretty heady stuff when you think about it. And naturally, in our infantile states, we had absolutely no knowledge of this grand debut into the world. Imagine it as a party, in which you are the star guest, and everyone forgot to tell you. 

The good news, is that this lack of awareness left us as children, free to explore and create in our own little way, without the pressure of having to report on our findings of this great experiment called life.  

However, at some point in this connection, we ourselves became aware not just of the planet around us, but of our conscious self and the interactions we had with it. To put it simply, we awakened to the thought - whether we understood it or not at the time - of “I exist”.
Cool right?

You would think this makes us pretty enlightened beings. But the older I get, and the more I live and experience the world, the less actual knowledge I realize that I truly know. So if this is case, have I learned anything thus far on this crazy topsy turvy journey of mine?

Believe it or not, the answer to that question is a resounding “Yes!” Therefore here’s a few insights - personal truths if you will - that I often reflect on:

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The bonds that bind us

7/11/2023

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“Found family is often the very best kind. “ - Elin Hilderbrand​

My dear friend Sharon and I were on the phone the other day when she told me this quote reminded her of me. I had excitedly called her while sitting on the floor of my new lovely little flat in New York. Although not yet furnished, this quirky space - with it’s charming creaky wooden floors, funny walls that meet at random angles, and nearly floor to ceiling windows that stream in light all day - already feels warm and inviting. A space where I can make traditions, invite friends over, sit cozily and write.

Sharon is one of my inner tribe - a soul sistah of my heart that I met at the height of the pandemic when I would wander the neighborhood in East Boston, desperate for fresh air and sunshine. I had felt like I was disappearing - terrified that one day I would wake to find no one could see me at all. That I would speak and others would barely recognize my voice, instead thinking it was a whisper in the wind. 

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Flight to Freedom

7/4/2023

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It's July 4th, and I have been trying to prep this week's blog post. Four different ideas, and while all will be great for future material, none seem right for our nation's holiday.

Ironically, as we are about to celebrate Independence Day, we live in a time when our freedoms are suddenly disappearing left and right.

Roe vs Wade has been overturned. Affirmative action is in jeopardy. Businesses can now discriminate against their customers. It seems like every day, something is happening which strips us of our right to call this country a democracy.

I love my country. I recognize that I still have freedoms here that don't exist in other areas of the world. And yet I still feel we can do better, be better. Which means I have to use my voice to speak up on behalf of myself, and others.
So today, in a reminder that I am responsible for fighting for my own freedom too, I decided to publish a poem I wrote in October of 2021 after finally getting out of an abusive situation. ​Originally titled "Fool's Gold", I renamed it when I realized the heart of the poem was fighting for one's personal freedom.

Whether it be untangling yourself from the trappings of a life you don't want, extraction from a horrible situation, freeing yourself from the clutches of what society claims you "must have" to live a worthy life, or surviving a time when personal freedoms are no longer a given, this poem is really about the perseverance of the human spirit.

When you need to summon your courage my loves, I hope you find the strength to fly.

Sharing this poem is my gift to you.
Happy Independence Day. ​

xoxo
Tink

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