Sugar Sugar

In a world filled with mixed signals and poor communication in traditional relationships, the author admires the transparency and directness of a genuine sugar-style connection.

​“I adore you. Truly. You mean everything to me. At least let me be your sugar daddy for the day. I’ll take you to dinner, shopping, you name it. No strings attached. I swear it.”

It was 1:30am and I was wearing nothing but a tiny little G-string and a 100-watt smile, while straddling the lap of the man issuing this proclamation. We had been having a wonderful time in the club’s champagne room, laughing and talking as I danced a private show for this patron. 

We had only met a few hours prior. And despite the fact that I was certain the couple beers he had downed up at the bar had contributed to his sense of adoration, I was also just as sure that he meant the affectionate offer he was giving - at least in this moment.

The issue therefore, that I was having in accepting this generous and seemingly innocuous proposition, lay not in the doubts of the veracity of the overture, but rather in a very simple truth.

Most people have no clue what a sugar relationship truly entails. So allow me to enlighten you.

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